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Episode 66: Sex Nerd Sandra
Red Hot Touch
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Sex Nerd Sandra #66: Red Hot Touch

DAVE GETS TOUCHED A LOT & SANDRA WATCHES! Somatic sexologist, author and sex genius Jaiya Ma blows Sandra’s mind with SO MUCH hands-on knowledge! TOPICS: Sex Lab Hypothesis, Fingering Techniques, The G, U & AFE Spots, Layers of Erotic Touch, Sexy Bones, Sacrum Cupping, Sexual Shame Story, Softening & Melting Your Touch, Different Genital Types and the Levels of Erotic Consciousness.


Jaiya is an award-winning sexologist, author of Red Hot Touch, and the founder of New World Sex Education.  She’s been featured on shows such as Good Morning America, The Doctors, Nightline, Anderson Cooper, and Playboy TV. Through her dynamic teachings she’s helping women and men unleash their full erotic potential. Jaiya also hosts a weekly multimedia show that can be seen online at: You can follow Jaiya on Twitter (@JaiyaNWSE).

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  2. Kassia says:

    My partner and I have known each other for 12 years, we met just beorfe his accident, and were about to get together when he had his car crash, he is tetraplegic we finally got together in January of this year, and as far as his care is concerned, I do none of it unless I want to, he currently has a pressure sore, so is confined to bed, so, I help him eat, and drink, cut his hair for him, when he wants and give him a shave as he finds that hard when in bed, but hates having a beard. He has carers twice a day, and nurses to help with bowel care and change catheter when required, three mornings a week, I do help him shower, because we prefer it that way, but honestly, even if i did get allowances for his care, he would never expect it of me, as he always maintains, I am his girlfriend, not his nurse, or carer, and we currently don’t live together, because he wants me to be quite sure I can cope with our relationship. I love him, totally and utterly, and for me he is the same man as he was when we first met, he protects me, makes me laugh, we have a full, and amazing sex life and he can handle me on a bad day too! My advice would have to be HONESTY with yourself, and your partner, if you feel this way now, how are you going to feel in 10 years? And the answer is you will resent him, feel taken for granted, if he is able to clear up a certain amount of his own mess, he damn well should! You are his girlfriend, first and foremost, and if he doesn’t want to lose you, he will try and be more reasonable, if not, then , get counselling, even if you go alone to start with but go, even if it just teaches you to be stronger and gives you the ability to be less of a pushover, no offence!

  3. Derek says:

    I am kind of jealous. All these great tips to please a woman. Finding out you have all these wonderful spots, its enough to make a man jealous.

  4. Steve says:

    Used Jaiya’s front and back finger dragging technique on my loves G-spot last night and 6 hours later she is still a quivering twitching puddle and I really loved the show before I was given this gift.

    Dave, Sandra Jayia you are changing peoples lives for the better. please don’t ever stop.

  5. Eric says:

    I had no idea that the testicles go up into the body when ejactualting. Immediately after the podcast was over I masturbated to check and they do recede up into the body. I was genuinely surprised.

  6. Matt says:

    Not that this week’s show wasn’t as entertaining and educational as always, but I have to say that demonstration is a hell of a lot less effective in audio form.

  7. Niklas says:

    where can i see the pictures , i’m curious to see them.

  8. Daneezy says:

    And once again, another great episode. I really enjoy learning about all this stuff, I had no idea how dumb/ignorant/blind I was to sexuality until I started listening to Sandra, Dave and guests. Thanks for blowing my mind often 🙂

  9. Todd Mason says:

    I had previously (iinm) only seen your guest as the most incisive interview subject of the documentary _Sex Magic: Manifesting Maya_, which Sundance Channel was running a fair amount some months back, and her willingness to cut through the “woowoo” and question the practice and the perhaps unconscious motives of the fellow therapist at the heart of that movie was appreciated…as is your discussion here.

  10. Curtis says:

    Two weeks in a row of Dave getting touched by the guest.

    I think they’re trying to tell you something, Dave.