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Episode 157: Sex Nerd Sandra
Applied Arousal with Pamela Madsen plus Jason Porath!

Sex Nerd Sandra #157: Applied Arousal with Pamela Madsen plus Jason Porath!

HAND HUMPING! Author and advocate Pamela Madsen teaches Sandra to rock out with her arousal out. BUT FIRST! Sandra asks Jason a prying question. TOPICS: Ball Cupping, Flaccid State Pleasure, Erectile Dysfunction, Losing Sight of Pleasure, Low Libido, Lotus Lift Meditation, Finding Arousal, Religious Movement, Aroused Meditation, The Heel Trick, Deepak Chopra, Childhood Shaming, Numbness, Erotic Energy, Inner Pharmacy, Kegels, All Day Arousal, Lighting Up Our Bodies, Observer Sex, Self Esteem, Un-armouring Ourselves, Roleplay, Power, and the three questions to ask yourself when you’re turned on!


A pioneer in fertility and sex advocacy, Pamela Madsen is the Founder and first Executive Director of The American Fertility Association. She is a fearless advocate for women’s health and integrated sexuality who leverages her raw honesty and well-informed wit to help strip the stigma from infertility, female desire and body image.

Pamela has coached hundreds of women on their own personal journey back into their bodies, and their own expression of their Divine Feminine. Pamela is a veteran speaker, educator, and renowned blogger for Psychology Today, The Fertility Advocate, and Care2. She is the author of Shameless: How I Ditched The Diet, Got Naked, Found True Pleasure and Still Got Home In Time To Cook Dinner (Rodale, January 2011). Pamela has appeared on 60 Minutes, Oprah, CNN, AARP Primetime Radio, The Dr. Laura Berman Show, The Jane Pratt Show, and Playboy Radio, as well as countless other media outlets.


Jason Porath is a comic artist and creator of He writes, draws, blogs, and can be found on the web at, on Twitter at @jasonporath, or emailed at [email protected]


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  1. Nathan says:

    This guest lost all intellectual cred for me as soon as she mentioned chakras and Deepak Chopra.

  2. Wildride says:

    Deepak Chopra?!?  Why would the CEO of Canada Post come up on the sex podcast?

    • Nathan says:

      I am pretty sure you are just joking but just in case.

      Deepak Chopra is a new age guru.  He pushes a lot of superstitious bullshit with attempts to justify it with a very limited and opportunistic misinterpretations of science.  There isn’t a single serious scientist who agrees that the science implies what he tries to claim it does.  I don’t know if he is just willfully ignorant of science or just knowingly misusing it.  Either way he is a conman.

      • elmsyrup says:

        Also she kept misusing the word permission when she meant to say permit- for example ‘ we need to permission women to feel their arousal’.